永遠不要對父母說的十句話

永遠不要對父母說的十句話
1、好了,好了,知道,真羅嗦!

2
、有事嗎,沒事?那掛了啊。
(父母打電話,也許只想說說話,我們能否理解他們的用意,不要匆忙掛了電話?)
3、說了你也不懂,別問了!
4、跟你說了多少次不要你做,做又做不好。
(一些他們已經力不能及的事,我們因為關心而制止,但這樣讓他們覺得自己很無用)
5、你們那一套,早就過時了。
(父母的建議,也許不能起到作用,可我們是否能換一種回應的方式?)
6、叫你別收拾我的房間,你看,東西找都找不到!
(自己的房間還是自己收拾好,不收拾,也不要拂了父母的好意)
7、我要吃什麼我知道,別夾了!
(盼著我們回家的父母總想把所有關心融在特意做的菜裡,我們默默領情就好)
8、說了別吃這些剩菜了,怎麼老不聽啊!
(他們一輩子的節約習慣,很難改,讓他們每次盡量少做點菜就好)
9、我自己有分寸,不要老說了,煩不煩.

10、這些東西說了不要了,堆在這裡做什麼啊!
(他們總想把跟我們成長有關的東西都收藏起來,也許佔滿房間,多年後,看到自己還是嬰兒時的小棉襖,難道不是很驚喜嗎?)

相信很多人都或多或少的說了這10句 中的一句或幾句,但請體諒我們的爸爸媽媽,作為子女,我們都不要再說這樣的話,人生很短,一定要珍惜你身邊的親人,愛人,朋友。不要等到一切都無法挽回 了,你才知道這些人對你是多麼的重要,善待生命,孝敬爸爸媽媽,要知道,不管你做錯了什麼,爸爸媽媽都會原諒你的,『家』才是你永久的港灣!!

姓名吉凶

姓名
將全名的筆劃總和
例如: 王小明 4+3+8 = 15



二畫:動搖不安,一榮一枯,一盛一衰,勞而無功。(凶)
三畫:立身出世,有貴人助,天賜吉祥,四海名揚。(吉)
四畫:日被雲遮,苦難折磨,非有毅力,難望成功。(凶)
五畫:陰陽和合,精神
快,榮譽達利,一門興隆。(吉)
六畫:萬寶集門,天降幸運,立志奮發,得成大功。(吉)
七畫:精力旺盛,頭腦明敏,排除萬難,必獲成功。(吉)
八畫:努力發達,貫徹志望,不忘進退,可期成功。(吉)
九畫:雖抱奇才,有才無命,獨營無力,財利難望。(凶)


十畫:烏雲遮月,暗淡無光,空費心力,徒勞無功。(凶)
十一畫:草木逢春,枝葉沾露,穩建著實,必得人望。(吉)
十二畫:薄弱無力,孤立無援,外祥
苦,謀事難成。(凶)
十三畫:天賦吉運,能得人望,善用智慧,必獲成功。(吉)
十四畫:忍得苦難,必有後福,是成是敗,惟靠堅毅。(凶)
十五畫:謙恭做事,外得人和,大事成就,一門興隆。(吉)
十六畫:能獲眾望,成就大業,名利雙收,盟主四方。(吉)
十七畫:排除萬難,有貴人助,把握時機,可得成功。(吉)
十八畫:經商做?A順利昌隆,如能慎始,百事亨通。(吉)
十九畫:成功雖早,慎防虧空,
外不和,障礙重重。 (凶)

二十畫:智高志大,
盡艱難,焦心憂勞,進退兩難。 (凶)
二十一畫:先
困苦,後得幸福,霜雪梅花,春來怒放。(吉)
二十二畫:秋草逢霜,懷才不遇,憂愁怨苦,事不如意。(凶)
二十三畫:旭日昇天,名顯四方,漸次進展,終成大業。(吉)
二十四畫:錦繡前程,須靠自力,多用惡恁A 能奏大功。(吉)
二十五畫:天時地利,只久人和,講信修睦,即可成功。(吉)
二十六畫:波瀾起伏,千變萬化,凌駕萬難,必可成功。(凶帶吉)
二十七畫:一成一敗,一盛一衰,惟靠謹慎,可守成功。(吉帶凶)
二十八畫:魚臨旱地,難逃惡運,此數大凶,不如更名。(凶)
二十九畫:如龍得雲,青雲直上,惡挩譯i,才略奏功。 (吉)


三十畫 :吉凶參半,得失相伴,投機取巧,如賭一樣。 (吉帶凶)
三十一畫:此數大吉,名利雙收,漸進向上,大業成就。(吉)
三十二畫:池中之龍,風雲際會,一躍上天,成功可望。(吉)
三十三畫:意氣用事,人和必失,如能慎始,必可昌隆。(吉)
三十四畫:災難不
,難望成功,此數大凶,不如更名。(凶)
三十五畫:處事嚴謹,進退保守,學智兼具,成就非凡。(吉)
三十六畫:波瀾重疊,常陷窮困,動不如靜,有才無命。(凶)
三十七畫:逢凶化吉,吉人天相,以德取眾,必成大功。(吉)
三十八畫:名雖可得,利則難獲,藝界發展,可望成功。(凶帶吉)
三十九畫:雲開見月,雖有勞碌,光明坦途,指日可期。(吉)


四十畫:一盛一衰,浮沉不定,知難而退,自獲天佑。 (吉帶凶)
四十一畫:天賦吉運,德望兼備,繼續努力,前途無限。(吉)
四十二畫:事業不專,十九不成,專心進取,可望成功。(吉帶凶)
四十三畫:兩夜之花,外祥
苦,忍耐自重,轉凶為吉。(吉帶凶)
四十四畫:雖用心計,事難遂願,貪功好進,必招失敗。(凶)
四十五畫:楊柳遇春,綠葉發枝,沖破難關,一舉成名。(吉)
四十六畫:坎坷不?A艱難重重,若無耐心,難望有成。(凶)
四十七畫:有貴人助,可成大業,雖遇不幸,浮沉不大。(吉)
四十八畫:美花豐實,鶴立雞群,名利
全,繁榮富貴。(吉)
四十九畫:遇吉則吉,遇凶則凶,惟靠謹慎,逢凶化吉。(凶)


五十畫 :吉凶互見,一成一敗,凶中有吉,吉中有凶。(吉帶凶)
五十一畫:一盛一衰,浮沉不常,自重自處,可保平安。(吉帶凶)
五十二畫:草木逢春,雨過天晴,渡過難關,即獲成功。(吉)
五十三畫:盛衰參半,外祥
苦,先吉後凶,先凶後吉。(吉帶凶)
五十四畫:雖傾全力,難望成功,此數大凶,最好改名。(凶)
五十五畫:外觀隆昌,
隱禍患,克服難關,開出泰運。(吉帶凶)
五十六畫:事與願違,終難成功,欲速不達,有始無終。(凶)
五十七畫:雖有困難,時來運轉,曠野枯草,春來花開。(凶帶吉)
五十八畫:半凶半吉,浮沉多端,始凶終吉,能保成功。(凶帶吉)
五十九畫:遇事猶疑,難望成事,大刀闊斧,始可有成。(凶)


六十畫 :黑暗無光,心迷意亂,出爾反爾,難定方針。 (凶)
六十一畫:雲遮半月,
隱風波,應自謹慎,始保平安。(吉帶凶)
六十二畫:煩悶懊惱,事業難展,自防災禍,始免困境。(凶)
六十三畫:萬物化育,繁榮之象,專心一意,必能成功。(吉)
六十四畫:見異思遷,十九不成,徒勞無功,不好更名。(凶)
六十五畫:吉運自來,能亨盛名,把握機會,必獲成功。(吉)
六十六畫:黑夜漫長,進退維谷,
外不和,信用缺乏。(凶)
六十七畫:獨營事業,事事如意,功成名就,富貴自來。(吉)
六十八畫:思慮週祥,計劃力行,不失先機,可望成功。(吉)


七十畫 :慘淡經營,難免貧困,此數不吉,最好改名。 (凶)
七十一畫:吉凶參半,惟賴勇氣,貫徹力行,始可成功。(吉帶凶)
七十二畫:利害混集,凶多吉少,得而復失,難以安順。(凶)
七十三畫;安樂自來,自然吉祥,力行不懈,必能成功。(吉)
七十四畫:利不及費,坐食山空,如無惡恁A難望成功。 (凶)
七十五畫:吉中帶凶,欲速不達,進不好守,可保安祥。(吉帶凶)
七十六畫:此數大凶,破
之象,宜速改名,以避厄運。(凶)
七十七畫:先苦後甘,先甘後苦,如能守成,不致失敗。(吉帶凶)
七十八畫:有得有失,華而不實,須防劫財,始保安順。(吉帶凶)
七十九畫:如走夜路,前途無光,希望不大,勞而無功。(凶)
八十畫 :得而復失,枉費心機,守成無貧,可保安穩。 (吉帶凶)

给你一个故事

给你一个故事,希望你能喜欢这个故事并希望它能为你带来好运。
一天,一个盲人带着他的导盲犬过街时,一辆大卡车失去控制,直冲过来,盲人当场被撞死,他的导盲犬为了守卫主人,也一起惨死在车轮底下。
主人和狗一起到了天堂门前。
一个天使拦住他俩,为难地说:“对不起,现在天堂只剩下一个名额,你们两个中必须有一个去地狱。
主人一听,连忙问:“我的狗又不知道什么是天堂,什么是地狱,能不能让我来决定谁去天堂呢?
天使鄙视地看了这个主人一样,皱起了眉头,她想了想,:“很抱歉,先生,每一个灵魂都是平等的,你们要通过比赛决定由谁上天堂。
主人失望地问:“,什么比赛呢?
天使说:“这个比赛很简单,就是赛跑,从这里跑到天堂的大门,谁先到达目的地,谁就可以上天堂。不过,你也别担心,因为你已经死了,所以不再是瞎子,而且灵魂的速度跟肉体无关,越单纯善良的人速度越快。
主人想了想,同意了。
天使让主人和狗准备好,就宣布赛跑开始。她满心以为主人为了进天堂,会拼命往前奔,谁知道主人一点也不忙,慢吞吞地往前走着。更令天使吃惊的是,那条导盲犬也没有奔跑,它配合着主人的步调在旁边慢慢跟着,一步都不肯离开主人。天使恍然大悟:原来,多年来这条导盲犬已经养成了习惯,永远跟着主人行动,在主人的前方守护着他。可恶的主人,正是利用了这一点,才胸有成竹,稳操胜券,他只要在天堂门口叫他的狗停下就可以了。
天使看着这条忠心耿耿的狗,心里很难过,她大声对狗说:“你已经为主人献出了生命,现在,你这个主人不再是瞎子,你也不用领着他走路了,你快跑进天堂吧!”
可是,无论是主人还是他的狗,都像是没有听到天使的话一样,仍然慢吞吞地地往前走,好像在街上散步似的。
果然,离终点还有几步的时候,主人发出一声口令,狗听话地坐下了,天使用鄙视的眼神看着主人。
这时,主人笑了,他扭过头对天使说:“我终于把我的狗送到天堂了,我最担心的就是它根本不想上天堂,只想跟我在一起……所以我才想帮它决定,请你照顾好它。
天使愣住了。
主人留恋地看着自己的狗,又说:“能够用比赛的方式决定真是太好了,只要我再让它往前走几步,它就可以上天堂了。不过它陪伴了我那么多年,这是我第一次可以用自己的眼睛看着它,所以我忍不住想要慢慢地走,多看它一会儿。如果可以的话,我真希望永远看着它走下去。不过天堂到了,那才是它该去的地方,请你照顾好它。
说完这些话,主人向狗发出了前进的命令,就在狗到达终点的一刹那,主人像一片羽毛似的落向了地狱的方向。他的狗见了,急忙掉转头,追着主人狂奔。满心懊悔的天使张开翅膀追过去,想要抓住导盲犬,不过那是世界上最纯洁善良的灵魂,速度远比天堂所有的天使都快。
所以导盲犬又跟主人在一起了,即使是在地狱,导盲犬也永远守护着它的主人。
天使久久地站在那里,喃喃说道:“我一开始就错了,这两个灵魂是一体的,他们不能分开……”  
  最后,我要说:这个世界上,真相只有一个,可是在不同人眼中,却会看出不同的是非曲直。这是为什么呢?其实,道理很简单,因为每个人看待事物,都不可能站在绝对客观公正的立场上,而是或多或少地戴上有色眼镜,用自己的经验、好恶和道德标准来进行评判,结果就是——我们看到了假象。
  
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友谊的幸福之一,是知道了可以向谁倾吐秘密。"如果你收到了这封信,是因为有人在默默的祝福你,因为你也爱你身边的一些人。如果你总说太忙,不能将这封信转寄出去,老是说:"改天再寄。"你将永远都不会去做这件事的。所以,不要找借口,静心的看看这篇古老印度来的故事,然后决定为你的朋友们作一些事,从传寄这封信开始。当你说:"你是我的好朋友"时,请认真的说出来。当你道歉时请看着对方的眼睛。

*[永远不要嘲笑别人的梦想]*
*[不要随便给一个人定性]*
*[说话时要慢,思想时要快]*
*[打电话的时候请你微笑,对方一定感觉得到]*

Healthy Lifestyle.. Keep Walking

The Organs of your body have their sensory touches at the bottom of your foot, if you massage these points you will find relief from aches and pains as you can see the organs are on right and left foot, the heart is on the left foot.

Healty Lifestyle


This time, it put organs on the feet as they are. Typically
they are shown as points and arrows to show which organ it connects to. It is indeed correct since the nerves connected to these organs terminate here. This is covered in great details in Acupressure studies or textbooks. God created our body so well that he thought of even this. He made us walk so that we will always be pressing these pressure points and thus keeping these organs activated at all times. ……… 

So, Keep Walking…

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Drink the right tea & Soya Bean milk

Health, Wu Loong Tea, Green Tea, Chrysanthemum , Anti-Dioxin

Are you drinking the right tea?

1. People who use their “brain” to work or students who study hard day and night — should drink more chrysanthemum Tea.
2. People who need a lot of body energy to work or those people that do a lot of exercise everyday — should drink Wu Loong Tea.

3. People who travel on a bike or work in dirty and polluted places — should drink Green Tea.
4. For people who likes to sit down all day long and not doing anything even exercising — must drink Green Tea and Flower Tea.

5. People who smoke and drink a lot of alcoholic drinks — should drink more Green Tea.

6. Carnivore (those people who must eat meat) at least once a day, or feel sick or not feeling well — try to drink some Wu Loong Tea.

7. People who go to the washroom too often or too less — should drink more Honey Tea.

8. People with high cholesterol and high blood pressureWu Loong Tea, Green Tea.

9. Those who work with computers everyday — need to drink a Lot of Tea (any tea will do).

Whenever you are working with the computer, you should make some tea; drink it when you are free.

Drinking Tea is healthy — it can protect and prevent the harmful Ultraviolet light from harming us (when using computer).

Furthermore, it can also cure us when we are tired and help making our body feel fresh again.

Soya Bean

All of us know that Soya bean drink provides good protein to our body, but many of us doesn’t know that there are certain days we should avoid on the drink.

Soya bean drinks are best consumed on hot sunny days where the sun is burning and glaring. The Soya milk will gives lots of nutrients to the body, as the body is able to absorb the protein well.

However, avoid the drink when the weather is cloudy or anng. Taking the drink in these weathers, the body will not be able to take in the protein thus will result in a disease called “GOUT” or “high acidic urine” due to the high protein residue in the body, after a long run.

This disease will cause pain to your knee joints and it will only be in control when you control your food intake of proteins and medications. The pain is unbearable and usually you will have no idea what you have taken to cause the pain. Food like Soya beans, ikan bilis, broccoli, spinach,peanuts, animal organs ( i.e. pork liver) etc will have to be avoided to prevent the pain from attacking.

So my friends pass this to your family, relatives and friends to keep an alert of the pros and cons of Soya bean milk and when it is to be taken and avoid.


Tip to Better Healthy Life and Staying Fit

Health, Exercise, Fit For Life, Keep Healthy, Lifestyle, Personal Development, Body Exercise, Walking, Diet, Healthy Diet, Food Watch

Here are some simple and effective tips that could redefine your concept of health to a greater extent.

1. Move your body. Walk your dog; chase your kids; toss balls with friends, mow the lawn. Do anything that moves your limbs as it is an effective fitness tool and a stress buster.

2. Cut fat by avoiding fried foods, burgers and fatty meats. Opt for lower fat versions such as substitute butter, fat free cheeses and mayonnaise.

3. Smoking is injurious to health, so quit smoking to stay healthy. Thought for the day: Give up just one cigarette - the next one.
4. Stay away from stress. Exercise, meditation and spending 30 minutes a day doing something you like will allow you to stay cool.

5. Protect yourself from pollution. If you can’t live in a smog-free environment, at least avoid smoke-filled rooms, high traffic areas, breathing in highway fumes and exercising near busy thoroughfares.

6. Floss your teeth. People who floss their teeth are more health conscious than people who don’t. So floss and be your body’s boss.

7. Avoid excessive drinking. As studies show a glass of wine or one drink a day (two for men) can help protect against heart disease, more than that can cause other health problems like cancer.

8. Have a positive outlook. There’s a definite link between living well and having a cheerful outlook on life. You can’t be unhappy when you’re smiling or singing.

9. A natural remedy for coughs is a teaspoon of honey with a pinch of ground black pepper 2-3 times a day.

10. Beans are said to be rich in ‘flavonoids’ that help protect against heart disease and cancer. So don’t forget to eat your beans!

11. According to a new study drinking tea over a long period– long, green, or black–builds strong bones. Bone loss can start in the thirties, especially in women.

12. To treat sunburn, take some leaves from an aloe plant and refrigerate them. After they have cooled, you can peel off the top layer of a leaf and apply the exposed gel directly to the sunburn.

13. Practice laughing at yourself. You just can’t help becoming more accepting of your own shortcomings, and that’s a sure-fire stress-buster.

14. Exercise is a powerful remedy against depression. The body’s natural endorphins, elevated by a good workout, will naturally improve your mood.

15. Avoid the use of alcohol, sedatives and antihistamines which cause a “loggy,” drugged feeling. Eat less protein and fat in favor of fruits and vegetables.

16. You may be wondering what seatbelts have to do with health. Statistics show that wearing seatbelts keeps you safe and therefore allows you to live longer.

17. Do not take fried foods instead have baked or steamed food. Include lot of salads and fruits in your diet. Take only one type of fruit at a time.
18. Whenever you are going somewhere near, make it a point to walk. Go for a walk every morning.

19. Yoga is one of the best ways to keep yourself fit and healthy. Meditation calms and relaxes your mind.

20. Take a nutritious diet which is very important for both physical and mental health. Include lot of fresh fruits, vegetables and pulses.

21. Take up a hobby besides your profession. It is a great way to relax and be happy. It relieves you of stress.

22. Go for an early morning walk and enjoy the fresh air and the beautiful sunrise. It is a sure way to de-stress yourself.

23. Listen to any music of your choice. It is a great way of relaxing.

24. Massage is a great way to de-stress yourself. Have a massage with essential oil or a warm scented bath.

25. Laughter is a great medicine. Watch a humorous movie which is a wonderful way to relax.

26. Don’t bottle up your emotions, share it with a trusted friend or write it in a piece of paper and tear it.

27. Laughter is the best medicine according to many doctors. In fact, a single laugh may boost your immune systems defenses for up to 3 days.

28. A good to know health tip is that beer and wine can actually be good for you and help you to live longer.

29. Eating a naturally healthy breakfast every morning makes you less likely to suffer a heart attack.

30. A 4-5% reduction in your water intake may reduce your concentration and performance by as much as 30%.

31. Eat at least one good serving of uncooked food before every meal. You’ll be pleased by how much weight you’ll lose and how much better you’ll feel.



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Some Important notice for your health that I like to share with all..

少喝奶茶;
Reduce volume of tea intake;

不吃 刚烤的面包;
Do not eat bread which has JUST been toasted;

远离充 手机电源 ;
Stay a distance from your charger;

白天多喝水,晚上少喝;
Drink more water in the morning, less at night;
一天 不喝多于两杯咖啡;
Do not drink coffee twice a day;

少吃油多的食物;
Reduce your volume of oily food;

最佳睡眠为晚上十点至凌晨六点;
Best sleeping time is from 10 at night to 6 at the morning;

晚上五点后少吃大餐;
Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm;

每天喝酒不多过一杯;
Do not take alcohol more than a cup daily;

不用 冷水服胶囊;
Do not take capsules with cold water;

睡前半小时服药忌 立刻躺下;
Do not lie down immediately after taking medicine before sleeping;

睡眠不足八小时人会变笨;
Have 8 hours sleep. Lack of it will make a person stupid;

有午睡习惯的人不易老;
People who get used to napping will not get old easily;

若不能晨跑,傍晚5点至 8点的时间是散步的好时间;
If you can’t get on early morning runs, 5-8 in the afternoon is a great
time for jogging;

电池剩一格时不要 接电话 ,剩一格时辐射是平时的一千倍 ;
When battery left last grid, do not answer the phone. The radiation is
1000 times;

还要记得用左耳接话 ,用右耳会直接伤害到大脑;
Answer the phone with your left ear. It’ll spoil your brain directly if
you use your right ear;

少用耳机。用一小时后就好休息你的耳朵;
Do not use earphone for long time. Rest your ear a while after 1 hour.


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